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A journey, not an isolated answer.
The conversation moves from expressing your difficulty to a shared understanding, and then towards a first useful action.
AI specialized in sexology • age-appropriate information
Talk about sex.With a method, not by chance.
A generalist AI can answer a question. HarmoSexo supports you on a specialized journey: understanding your situation, checking with you what it has understood, suggesting an initial lead, and guiding you if necessary.
100% free. No identity is required to get started, and you can pause and then resume the conversation under a pseudonym.
🔒 Specialized in sexology
○ Summary validated by you
✦ Built-in guardrails
↝ Pause and resume pseudonyms
AI sexology assistant
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I feel less desire than before, and I don’t know if it’s coming from me, my relationship, or fatigue.
AI sexology assistant
We can sort this out together, without jumping to conclusions too quickly. Since when have you noticed this change?Why choose HarmoSexo over a general AI?
The difference is in the pathway, not the model.
Yes: with the right prompt, ChatGPT can already do part of this work. HarmoSexo turns more than 40 lines of instructions, a four-stage pathway, guardrails, structured understanding, your confirmation and an optional human handoff into the product. You simply talk naturally.
So why not build our own large AI model?
Because the model is infrastructure, not the product.
We prefer to use an established LLM and control what happens around it: how HarmoSexo explores, what it must verify, when it must stop, what you confirm, and how it moves to action or a professional. The underlying engine can evolve or be replaced without changing that method.
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You stay in control.
HarmoSexo reformulates what it has understood. You can correct the summary and must validate it before moving on to the action steps.
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Suitable safeguards
Pain, urgency, consent, minority: HarmoSexo knows how to halt the exploration and provide guidance without making a diagnosis.
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A continuity without revealing your identity
You can pause the conversation, resume it under a pseudonym, and then choose whether you want to contact a human professional.
You can simply start by...
There's something that's been on my mind.
You don’t need to know the right term or whether your question is “important enough.” Your sexo AI helps you sort through it.
Desire that changes
Decreased desire, disconnection in the couple, difficulty reconnecting.
Erection, orgasm, ejaculation
Questions, anxiety, pressure to succeed, or functioning that eludes you.
Pleasure and exploration
Better understand what you enjoy, your limits, and what you wish to try.
Couple and communication
Find simple words to talk about sex without accusation or pressure.
Body, shame, and confidence
Self-image, shame, fear of judgment, or difficulty letting go.
Discomfort or health issue
Understanding what deserves special attention and which professional to turn to.
A four-step method
You proceed without filling out a questionnaire.
1. Expression
You share what concerns you in your own words. A single sentence is enough to get started.
2. Exploration
HarmoSexo asks targeted questions, one at a time, to understand the context without jumping to conclusions too quickly.
3. Confirmation
HarmoSexo reformulates what it has understood. You correct the summary and validate it before moving on to the action plans.
4. Action
You receive a first concrete lead or the opportunity to consult a human sexologist. If a medical or safety situation arises, guidance is provided without delay.
Privacy, simply explained
What you tell us is used to answer you.
Not to train a HarmoSexo model. Here is what happens, without the jargon.
During the conversation
Your private session state is stored in encrypted form. To generate each response, the useful conversational context is sent to the AI model API.
If you come back later
The pseudonymous saved conversation state is also encrypted. You do not need to provide your identity to start or resume.
The AI model
Today, HarmoSexo uses the OpenAI API. HarmoSexo does not train or fine-tune its own model on your conversations. OpenAI states that API inputs and outputs are not used to train its models by default unless the API customer explicitly enables data sharing.
Retention and testing
OpenAI states that, depending on the features and settings used, API data may be retained for up to 30 days to provide the service and detect abuse. Our tester analytics do not store your messages or the replies.
In other words, the context needed to generate a response is processed by our external AI provider; it does not remain only on HarmoSexo servers.
Read our privacy policy →Clear boundaries
Designed to talk about sexuality, not to do everything.
HarmoSexo can explicitly talk about sexuality when it's useful, but its role remains understanding, guidance, and decision-making support.
×He doesn't ask for your identity to get started.
×He doesn't turn the conversation into an erotic game.
×He does not make a medical diagnosis.
×He shares nothing with a professional without your choice.
Prefer to talk to a sexologist?
Your AI sexology assistant can suggest sexologists who appear relevant to your request.
If you want to continue with a human professional, HarmoSexo can suggest profiles whose practice appears relevant to your request. The summary you confirmed prepares the handoff: you freely choose the professional and which information you want to share. The handoff remains optional.
MATCH is based on relevance: sexologists do not pay to be shown or to appear higher in the results. Sponsorship never gives a professional priority in recommendations.
View sexologists →A potential human consultation is arranged directly with the professional according to their terms.
Are you a sexologist?
HarmoSexo prepares the meeting. You stay in control.
Users can review their summary, choose the information shared, and select a professional. You then decide to accept, refuse, request clarification, or send a short private response.
✓ Clarified requests
✓ Share decided by the user
✓ No obligation to accept.
✓ Private channel before the appointment
FAQ
The questions we ask ourselves before starting
Is it completely free?
Yes. The conversation with the sexo AI is 100% free, with no payment or credit card required. A consultation with a human professional, if you request one, may incur a fee depending on their rates.
Should I share very intimate things?
Only what you choose. You can stay general, correct Sexo, or stop the conversation at any time.
Is it a doctor or a psychotherapist?
No. HarmoSexo is an AI assistant specialized in sexology. It can inform, explore, and guide, but it does not perform examinations or medical diagnoses.
Can I talk about explicit subjects?
Yes, when they relate to your question or your sexual well-being. The space remains focused on understanding and improvement, not on excitement or erotic play.
Why not just use ChatGPT directly?
You can: with the right prompt, ChatGPT can do part of the work. HarmoSexo removes the need to write and manage that prompt yourself: the pathway, guardrails, structured summary, your confirmation and optional orientation are built into the product.
Do I need to create an account or provide my name?
No, to start with. You can speak anonymously. If you wish to return later, a pseudonym, a password, and a backup code are sufficient. Identity information only becomes necessary if you explicitly request a connection or an appointment.
If it is free, who pays for it?
The AI conversation is currently made possible by the generosity of anonymous private donors, who fund the operation of the service, including the cost of using the AI. That support allows HarmoSexo to offer the conversation to you free of charge.
How does HarmoSexo choose which sexologists to suggest?
After your conversation, HarmoSexo can suggest professionals whose practice appears relevant using the useful information available about your request and preferences. You then freely choose the profile and what you want to share. Sexologists do not pay to be shown or to appear higher in the results. Sponsorship never improves their ranking in MATCH.
You don't need to know how to start.
It’s completely free. Just write down what concerns you: HarmoSexo will help you understand, verify, and choose a useful first step.